This morning I went in to wake Nate. He was still asleep at 6:20, probably because he had been up until 9 pm the night before, not my choice, but I digress.
He woke up so happy, and so glad to see me. It was such a wonderful moment, as he realized I was sitting there and his face broke into a smile.
As I got his clothes out for him to wear today, he told me, "Mommy, did you know you can solve problems in your dreams?"
I said "Really? Did you solve a problem in your dreams last night?"
Nate: "Yep, I sure did!"
I couldn't get him to tell me what problem he had been working on all night.
We have had some issues with swimming the last few days. Nate has been terrified of the pool, crying and refusing to get in. Add to this that we started swim lessons this week, and so this crying and fighting has occurred in a very public setting. We have been very frustrated. Monday was the worst, then on Tuesday I was able to convince him to get in, but sat on the edge of the pool and basically worked alone with him (he would not interact with the teachers or his class). Since we had made progress, I was hoping that by the end of the week he'd be back playing in the pool like he had last year.
Today Tom took Nate to his friend Andrew's birthday party at a small pool in East Moline and worked with him, they had a great time. So I was optimistic for swim lessons, even though Nate was exhausted, hadn't eaten any dinner, and should have been a terror.
Skip forward to tonight's swim lessons. To my amazement, Nate got in the pool and did EVERYTHING the class did. He listened to the teachers, and I was able to sit several feet away in a pool chair and watch the class. He was a totally different child from the last two nights of swim lessons. I was so happy and excited for him.
Tom and I were both so proud of him, and how well he did. He was pretty proud of himself too, practically dancing out of the pool.
Nate: "My brain was telling me that swimming was scary, but now I decided that I am going to LIKE swimming! I solved the problem!"
Me (as a light goes off in my head): "Nate, was the problem you solved in your dreams about swimming?"
Nate: "Yep!"
This was the problem he solved in his sleep last night.